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Beach

When I go to the beach I feel both child and adult.

My own memories of long days jumping waves, building sandcastles and collecting shells merge with my children's pleasure as they do exactly the same things.

We all relax at the beach. It is difficult to worry with sand between your toes and a blue sky overhead.






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Alone in a Crowd


Little do men perceive what solitude is, and how far it extendeth.
For a crowd is not company, and faces are but a gallery of pictures,
and talk but a tinkling cymbal, where there is no love. - Sir Francis Bacon


This morning I attended a new parents' morning tea at my daughter's new high school. As I looked across the sea of parents and teachers sipping coffee, eating cake and chatting, I realised that I didn't know a single person.

I looked around to see if there were any other loners I might sidle up to, teacup in hand, but no, everybody was talking to somebody else. Nobody noticed me at all, and nobody ventured to speak to me. At that point I very nearly turned around and walked straight out of there.

Eventually I observed a couple of teachers with name badges and introduced myself. They in turn introduced me to several mothers and I made small talk to strangers for about half an hour before making my escape.

When my daughter came home from school I told her about my experience at the morning tea. She said that it had been the same for her; not knowing anyone, seeing groups of people who knew each other and wondering if she should - or could- break in and introduce herself. Knowing her strong and sociable personality I am sure she will make good friends quickly.

There are many good things about moving to a new city - being forced out of one's comfort zone; visiting new places; making new friends.

Yet over and over again there is that moment I think we all dread, being alone in a crowd and not knowing where to begin.

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Decorating Biscuits for Australia Day


I am no longer the one who creates craft and cooking activities for my youngest son. Without being asked, and with great energy and flair, my beautiful 13 year old daughter has taken on this role.

Often she will ask me to purchase particular ingredients or other items for some activity or other she has planned. And usually I am very happy to oblige.


For an Australia Day activity Miss 13 asked if she and her little brother could decorate milk arrowroot biscuits.

She made Aussie green icing with two cups of icing sugar and a little boiling water and green food colouring. The table was laid out with Smarties, sprinkles, the biscuits and a range of spoons and knives for spreading and decorating.

At first only Miss 13 and her little brother worked on the biscuits, but eventually the other two boys joined in.



Whether you are watching the tennis or the cricket, going to the beach, eating a lamington or having a barbie ... or none of these things ... I hope you have a happy Australia Day.

Aussie! Aussie! Aussie! Oy! Oy! Oy!

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Upside Down Under


A couple of days ago an anonymous commenter left the following comment on my Vintage Cough Remedies post from 2007:

"It was certainly interesting for me to read this post. Thank you for it. I like such themes and anything connected to them. BTW, why don't you change design :)."


At first I felt slightly bemused. Does this reader think my blog design is so awful that I need to change my blog design, and as soon as possible?


Then I realised that there is a more likely explanation. My summery looking blog with its beach theme looks like it is six months out of date as it's the middle of winter, right? It looks like I have been too absent-minded or lazy to change my blog design to match the seasons.


Except of course that it is midsummer here in the Southern Hemisphere. And it's extremely hot. Therefore, a beach theme is entirely appropriate.


We in the Southern Hemisphere are used to Northern Hemisphere seasons being considered the norm. After all, just about every Christmas film we ever see either shows a white Christmas or is dreaming of one. Meanwhile, we eat cold Christmas turkey and prawns on the beach.

Yet although our seasons may seem odd, they do exist. We celebrate Valentine's day in summer and Easter in the autumn. Halloween, which is only just starting to take off as a celebration here, occurs late in spring. And Christmas, of course, arrives just in time for the summer solstice.

By the way, I stole the title of this post from my friend Ben's new blog Upside Down Under. Married to my dear friend Megs, they lived in Seattle for the first ten years of their marriage but have recently migrated to Melbourne, Australia to be near Megan's family. Ben's blog is about the strangeness of adjusting to a new country that is in some ways very similar to the United States, yet in many ways so very, very different.


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Nanny McPhee and the Big Bang


A new Nanny McPhee film is on the way and looks like great family viewing. With a great English cast including Emma Thompson, Ralph Fiennes, Maggie Smith (all very Harry Potter, I know) and Maggie Gyllenhaal, it should prove to be lots of innocent fun with very stylish performances. The only disappointment is that Colin Firth is not in this one (such a shame that he has never been in any of the Harry Potter films either. I wonder why?).



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Abundance

Abundance is a bowl of peaches taken straight from the tree.

Some are a little unripe, as you can see, so I am leaving them out to ripen. If they had stayed on the tree much longer the birds and possums would have had a feast but there would have been none for us.

In a day or two they will fill the house with their fragrance. My mouth waters as I imagine biting into one and letting the peach juice run down my chin.


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Afternoon Tea Circa 1935

This post is in memory of my Grandmother, Alfreda Teresa Deeble, 13/1/1908-27/5/1991. Today would have been her 102nd birthday.

During 1935 the Great Depression was at its worst, Hitler ruled in Germany and Wallis Simpson was Prince Edward's mistress.


Clark Gable and Shirley Temple ruled the Box Office.

And in 1935 my grandparents were married in sleepy, sunny Melbourne, Australia.


Despite troubling events elsewhere in the world, like all new wives my grandmother had more personal issues to deal with, not least, her inability to cook. Gran was a career girl; for several years prior to her marriage she had worked as a legal secretary and had not needed domestic skills.

Many years later, having becoming an excellent cook, she narrated a cookbook in which she shared her favourite recipes.

Here is how she described her first afternoon tea as a married lady:

I remember my first afternoon tea as a married lady. I didn't know what I was going to do because I didn't know how to cook. Luckily a lady came to demonstrate my new stove and I got her to make everything I needed: a sponge sandwich, scones and little cakes. The day she came,Uncle Norman was there laying the second hand lino with a great big hole in the back of his pants. I'll never forget he had to keep backing out of the room so that she wouldn't see it.

She left me a little book called
100 Tested Recipes,compiled by Miss Thelma Crump and Miss Helen Potter of the Home Service Department of the Colonial Gas Association. It's dated 1935, the year I was married so it must have come out especially for my benefit. Most of my cakes and scones are still based on recipes from that book.

My first afternoon tea was a great success, though one of the aunts asked me how many eggs I'd used in the sponge and I didn't have the faintest idea!


On her 102nd birthday this post is a tribute to a charming lady, a fantastic grandmother, and most of all, a terrific cook.



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Friday Cleaning Day


My last post described how, as a working mother, I try to keep my household running smoothly on my work days.

Today I'm going to talk about the things I try to achieve on Fridays, my day off, to get the house in order and prepare our home for the weekend ahead.

Fridays aren't just for housework, however. I frequently assist in the reading program in my youngest son's classroom on Friday mornings. Afterwards I often go out for coffee with some of the other mothers.

The tendency when one has only one day at home each week is to either do nothing or to try to do too much. As in all things it is best try to strike a balance.

At one time I would attempt an enormous number of things on Fridays: clean the entire house; wash and hang out all laundry including all sheets and towels, then remake all beds; clean out the fridge; do the grocery shopping; and pay the bills.

Nowadays I am kinder to myself but do try to give the house a decent clean. Anything else can wait for the weekend when there are other helpers around.

It seems to me there are two approaches to cleaning a home. The first, espoused by Flylady in her "Home Blessing Hour" and others, is task-based. That is, you do all of one task for the house, such as dusting or vacuuming, before moving onto another task.

I prefer to clean room by room, working around the house clockwise. This method has the benefit of variety and an immediate feeling of success. Also, if you don't finish you at least feel that part of the house is 'done'.

I'm pretty tired thanks to Adelaide's latest sleep-depriving heat wave, so I'm going to end here today.

If you have any questions, please leave me a comment and I'll try to reply. I have quite a different post planned for tomorrow but after that I'll do one about how we manage weekend chores.


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Daily Chores of a Working Mother

Whether we like it or not, and whether we define ourselves as homemakers or not, we all have to perform household tasks in order to make our homes pleasant places in which to live.

My new life as a four-day-a-week working mum has meant that I have had to change the way I manage the housework. While I am sure many (most) of you are more accomplished housekeepers than I am, I thought I would share how I manage our household - and it's a busy household with four active kids and two working parents - so that most things get done and nobody dies of neglect, starvation or dirty socks.

On the four days a week that I work I try merely to maintain household cleanliness with basic tasks that enable the household to keep running. On Fridays (my day off) I try to give the house a thorough clean. And on the weekend we catch up on anything not done during the week, which usually includes ironing, laundry, grocery shopping and gardening.

Daily Household Tasks

Preparing and cleaning up after meals
Making beds (done by those who sleep in them)
Sweeping the kitchen and family room floors
Keeping the kitchen clean and tidy
Basic laundry
General straightening and tidying before work and before bed
Taking rubbish out to the outside bin
Filling in notes, checking homework and other school-related tasks
Wiping over bathroom and kitchen sinks
Bringing in and opening mail
Remove obvious clutter

So long as these tasks are done - and I don't do them all myself - the house is fairly orderly and we can last until Friday when I clean properly. The house can also be made 'company-ready' fairly easily and quickly.

How have you managed to streamline your housework?

My next post: What I do on Fridays to spruce up my home for the weekend



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Rosemary, Lemon and Garlic Marinade for Lamb or Chicken

When it's hot enough to be able to smell the rosemary bush in my backyard as I brush past, then its time to make this marinade.

Delicious with lamb or chicken, it's aroma while cooking will have you imagining yourself in a Taverna on one of the Greek isles.

Simply combine some crushed fresh rosemary, a good squeeze of lemon, a dash of olive oil, a clove or two of crushed garlic, and some salt and pepper.

Add your meat and a sliced onion if desired, then marinade for an hour or two before cooking on a grill or barbecue.

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Agapanthus

Having just discovered that agapanthuses are also known as "lilies of the Nile", I know which name I would prefer, were I an agapanthus.
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Summer Food

Mother Nature clearly knew what she was doing when she created summer food.

The greens, reds, blacks and golds of zucchinis, cucumbers, tomatoes, peppers, eggplants and sweetcorn arouse appetites jaded by hot weather and sleepless nights.

Moreover, the minimal amount of cooking required to turn such foods into a feast suits the weather perfectly.


Bon appetit!
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